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	<title>Comments on: The Language of Frailty</title>
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		<title>By: Deirdre</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deirdre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 11:31:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What great questions:

1)      What makes it easy to work with someone?
2)      What makes it difficult to work with someone?

From a completely ego-centric perspective, easy = doing it my way without a lot of dialogue and conversation.  But the older I get, the more I appreciate the people in question #2 because they challenge me.  I need to look a what I am doing that makes the situation challenging and own some of it, at least.  :)  
One of my colleagues has Positivity as a Strength (in Strengths Assessment) and being around her is an absolute JOY.  And its so natural for her.   

Great post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What great questions:</p>
<p>1)      What makes it easy to work with someone?<br />
2)      What makes it difficult to work with someone?</p>
<p>From a completely ego-centric perspective, easy = doing it my way without a lot of dialogue and conversation.  But the older I get, the more I appreciate the people in question #2 because they challenge me.  I need to look a what I am doing that makes the situation challenging and own some of it, at least.  <img src='http://people-equation.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
One of my colleagues has Positivity as a Strength (in Strengths Assessment) and being around her is an absolute JOY.  And its so natural for her.   </p>
<p>Great post.</p>
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		<title>By: Mary Jo Asmus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Jo Asmus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 11:08:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jennifer,

I agree with your post! Following the same thinking, I find that it is easier for leaders to be critical than to praise; to find fault comes more naturally than to find what is right. I&#039;m not surprised about the lists you ask people to generate.

The interesting thing is that when someone comes along who naturally chooses to use words that uplift and inspire - many seem to be attracted to him/her. Wouldn&#039;t it be wonderful if we could create a &quot;Tipping Point&quot; for acceptance and skill in using such positive language? How different our world might be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jennifer,</p>
<p>I agree with your post! Following the same thinking, I find that it is easier for leaders to be critical than to praise; to find fault comes more naturally than to find what is right. I&#8217;m not surprised about the lists you ask people to generate.</p>
<p>The interesting thing is that when someone comes along who naturally chooses to use words that uplift and inspire &#8211; many seem to be attracted to him/her. Wouldn&#8217;t it be wonderful if we could create a &#8220;Tipping Point&#8221; for acceptance and skill in using such positive language? How different our world might be.</p>
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