They say, “do what you love, and you’ll never work another day in your life.” My pragmatic self usually gives this platitude the side-eye. Let’s face it: there are bills to pay and responsibilities to carry. Most of us can’t simply abandon practicality in pursuit of passion. But my aspirational self has also experienced the…
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Mapping Your Life
If you created a map of your life, what would it look like? Would it be a topographical map with hills and valleys that describe the highs and lows? Would it be a birds’ eye view with road names like “Inspiration Lane” and “Winding Way?” Maybe there’d even be a few Dead End signs? Thinking…
Looking for a Place to Land?
Welcome. I’m so glad you stopped by. When I read about the Oracle layoffs, my first thought was: what an inhumane way to lay off people. My second thought: this is the kind of moment that can leave a person feeling a little unmoored. When something like this happens without warning, it’s not just about…
Welcome to Your New Name
A few weeks after maternity leave ended with my first-born child, I was still adjusting to the new routine of dropping my son off for daycare. One day, as I entered my daycare provider’s home, I set my son’s infant carrier down and handed off the diaper bag to his caregiver Gayle. From inside the…
Turning Points: Thresholds that Invite a New Direction
I remember the feel of my dorm room’s concrete block wall digging into my shoulder, the edge of the wall holding me up, but also uncomfortable. Like it knew I needed both support and a strong nudge too. “You want to do what now?” My mother’s voice from 200 miles away sounded tinny through the…




